Jay Stielstra died peacefully at home of heart failure on March 1, 2024. In keeping with his preferences, this is a brief and humble obituary. There will be time for many more words at a celebration of some kind in the future.
Jay was born in 1933. He left his mark as a standout athlete in his home town of Ludington, Michigan and at the University of Michigan; as a US history and social studies teacher, and football coach in the Ann Arbor Public Schools; as a carpenter; as a songwriter, playwright, poet, author and performer; as a father, brother and husband.
He is survived by his wife Barbara Schmid; his children Julie Stielstra, Jamie Meza, and Aaron Stielstra; grandchildren Ben Meza and Suzanna Meza; great grandchild Nicolas Jay Meza; siblings Elden Stielstra, Connie Nofz and Gail Stielstra; and pets Sadie and Tiger.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to an organization that promotes environmental conservation in Michigan or social justice anywhere in the world. Or, perform an act of kindness in memory of Jay when you have a chance.
