Shirley Ellen (Cavender) Addison , age 88, passed away on May 29, 2024, in El Dorado Hills, California with her loving daughter by her side. Born on May 4, 1936, in Jackson, Michigan, Shirley was the cherished daughter of Lawrence and Francis Cavender and younger sister of David Cavender. Her formative years were shaped by the loving care of her Aunt Kathryn and Uncle James Sykes, who provided unwavering support following the early death of her mother. Shirley was preceded in death by her parents, Larry and Frances, her brother, David, and her beloved husband, Ted Addison.
On February 4, 1961, Shirley embarked on a lifelong journey of love and companionship with Theodore “Ted” Addison, whom she married in Jackson, Michigan. Together, they created a life filled with adventure, love, and a deep commitment to family. Their union blessed them with two children, Dane Lawrence and Michelle “Shellie” Kathryn Cook (Sean). Shirley was immensely proud of her family, especially her cherished grandchildren, Bailey Addison and Dalton James Cook.
A graduate of St. John's High School in Jackson, Michigan, Shirley's journey led her from Michigan to Texas, back to Michigan, and finally to Cameron Park, California, where she resided for 45 years. Her professional life was dedicated to the medical field, where she served as an administrative assistant for Dr. DeBruin in Folsom the last 30 years of her career. She formed lasting bonds with patients and colleagues which she cherished greatly.
Shirley was an enthusiastic sports fan, sharing a passion for the University of Michigan football program with Ted for over three decades. The joy of the Wolverines' National Championship win in 2023 was a highlight of her sports fandom. She also found solace and camaraderie on the golf course with the ladies' golf club and enjoyed playing softball in an adult league, a passion she passed down to her daughter and granddaughter. Above all, Shirley found her greatest joy in cheering on her grandchildren as they pursued their own athletic passions.
Despite her few words, Shirley's presence resonated deeply within her community. Her gentle demeanor, paired with a subtle sense of humor, endeared her to all who knew her. Shirley was exceptionally kind and loved to enjoy life. Her life exemplified the values of love, family, and community, leaving an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to have crossed paths with her.
Shirley Addison's funeral service in California will be held Friday, June 28, 2024, at 2:00 p.m. at Holy Trinity Catholic Parish, 3111 Tierra de Dios Dr, El Dorado Hills, CA 95762.
Shirley's funeral service in Michigan will be held Friday, July 19, 2024, at 2:00 p.m. at St. Mary's Star of the Sea Catholic Church, 120 East Wesley Street, Jackson, Michigan 49201.
Shirley's burial will take place Saturday, July 20, 2024, at 1:00 p.m. at Sts. Cornelius & Cyprian Parish Cemetery, 1320 Catholic Church Road, Bunkerhill Township, Leslie, Michigan.
Rest in peace, Shirley. Your legacy of love, kindness, and grace will endure eternally in the hearts of your beloved family and friends.
